Are you dating men that just aren’t making the cut? Do you know that special guy already, but having a hard time getting him to notice you? Or you just don’t want to be lonely this Valentine’s Day?
Well, it’s not too late to find that special someone before Valentine’s Day! We’ve cooked up several ways on how to make a man fall in love with you. Secure a date by February 14th with these simple tips:
IMPROVE YOUR HYGIENE
Take care of yourself. Buy a Luma Comfort air purifier or a humidifier for your health. You’ll be breathing in fresh air, while moisturizing your skin. Try wearing some cute outfits from your wardrobe. You don’t have to break the bank shopping, but you can always work with what you have by mixing and matching. Spray on some perfume too! Also You don’t have to wear heavy make-up, but nicely groom yourself. Brush your hair, floss your teeth, take daily showers, and wear clean clothes.
It’s all about being confident and independent. Men are extremely attracted to it. Men are socially awkward when it comes to being around other people, so try charming the people you meet. When he sees that other people naturally like you, he will too. Make everyone feel their best and like they are a better person. Always be happy, charismatic, and smile.
Let him chase you! When he asks about your life, give him short details that will make him ask for more. Remember to always be yourself though. Especially if you both have different hobbies, that makes you more interesting and intriguing. It’s always good to end the conversation on a high note so he can look forward to talking to you again. Turn down plans or stop texting back right away, and he’ll start to wonder what you’re doing.
SHOW YOUR BRAIN
It’s easy to say something stupid or start gossiping, especially as a girl. It’s best not to have a conversation about how you hate your neighbor or ex-boyfriend. Don’t be too sensitive or emotional either. Begin the conversation with the news or current events. Show that you’re just not all about looks and appearance. You don’t have to get serious about a topic, but let him know that you have a brain.
LAUGH A LITTLE
I admit to being a little tongue-tied when I went on my first date with my boyfriend. I was really nervous and over-thinking everything to the point I did not know what to say. He charmingly cracked a joke, and it made me laugh hysterically. Laughing can give you an idea of what the other person’s personality is like. Show him you like it when he makes you laugh because it will make him feel good about himself. It’s also a bonus if you crack a joke or take one!
Men have such big egos that they love to talk about only themselves. Sometimes we don’t even care what they’re saying, but it’s better to pretend like you do. Listen to what he has to say and never interrupt. Throw in some questions about previous comments he made or ask his opinions on current events.
Nobody likes a constant negative person to be around them. They complain about everything and hate all that they see. Be positive and optimistic. Always see the best in people, and you will instantly become more likeable. Make a bad situation into a good one or just opt to have a good time no matter where you two are. Supporting his endeavors will also let him know that you will always be there for me. Try doing a nice gesture. For example, if he is stressed about work, write him a note or bring him lunch.
BE PALS WITH HIS PALS
Most couples think the acceptance of their relationship has to come from their parents, but in reality it’s actually come from their friends. Try having a conversation about what they like to do, or buy them drinks at the bar when you’re out. Just make sure it is a good beer, and not a girly one like Blue Moon.
GET A KEGERATOR
Men love beer…and so do women! Chugging down a nice cold beer from my own tap is heaven. It’s a guarantee that he’ll come over a lot more once he finds out you have your own kegerator.
Cooking is obviously a way to anyone’s heart. Fill your kitchen with some of his favorite food. It will make him feel more at home when he is over at your place. America is ranked 2nd in the world for obesity, so I know you want to eat. Get down and dirty by whipping up a burger. This will show you’re not afraid to eat junk in front of him, but keep it classy.
MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A MAN
Make him feel dominant by asking him to fix or build something at your place. He will feel like he is taking care of you or protecting you from harm when you show him your vulnerable side. He’ll then open up and confide in you with his problems.
Testosterone! Need I say more? Men love doing outdoor activities, going to the gym, playing video games, and more. They love it when a girl can take an interest in what they like to do or can try something new with them. Be willing to go anywhere or do anything and it will make you come off just as adventurous as they are.
KEEP THE SPACE
Don’t become obsessively clingy with him. Respect his space and privacy as well as your own. Show that you can rely on each other, but get the freedom you both need. If he feels tied down, that will send him running. There’s no need to sacrifice friends or hobbies just because you want to start a relationship.
Remember you can’t make anyone love you, but if the chemistry is there it can work. If it’s meant to be, it will happen.